There's been some good advice posted on this so far. I was curious about how I would feel seeing my wife with another man(my ex was a real slut, and left me come serious scars), but we were with another couple and I found watching my wife with the other guy incredibly erotic(of course I was with his wife at the time). Later, me and the other guy pleasured Mrs. Sporty after his wife passed out(too much Gin), and that was also a real turn-on. His wife was 5'2", eyes of blue, could deep-throat, liked to swallow, and had all of her children by c-section, so my wife probably wondered if I would find her more fun in bed. Not so! Different, but definately not better. Men marry women because they are in love with them. They fit. They know how best to please their mate. No woman should have to worry that her man will think that another woman is "a better lay than me". If you ate rib-eye every night, an occasional cheeseburger would be sort of a treat. That's about all there is to it....just a little variety to sort of spice things up. One thing you might try is to get into a 69 with your wife while exploring her with a life-like vibrator at the same time. This will give her a similar experience to being pleasured by two men, without all of the emotional aspects that actually bringing in another guy would entail. Once she realizes how much fun this can be, she might like to go ahead and try the real thing. Also, once she realizes that this is done for fun, she might feel more comfortable entertaining the idea of another couple. Sportync
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