We have never come up with a good reason to play with anyone other than another couple, Jon & Kim. Whether our thinking is sound or flawed is open to interpretation, but we seek couples who've been faithful to each other and communicate very well.
Couples offer everything singles can offer and a lot more. Think of the possibilities. Threesomes in four combinations, plus someone gets to watch! Foursomes with various combinations. Same room/separate room. Soft swing. The list goes on and on. Plus, it is much less likely they would become emotionally attached thus bringing into the mix all the problems that would involve.
In our opinion, singles generally have greater exposure to std's, are more likely to be less than truthful about their present and past exposures, and less inclined to keep their mouths shut. We won't say we would never play with a single, just that we never have and would be hard to convince to do so.
You're going about it in the right way. Take your time, get to know potential playmates and playing will happen in due time.
Alura
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