My wife do a lot of talking and we yet have to do our first swing. Heck--we have been talking about swinging everyday for 6 months and have met some cpls (which might remain friends only), plus go to the local adult club in town. She says at times if she don't know if she wants to see me have sex with another woman and I really don't want to just stand there and watch while some dude bangs my wife. So we agreed that both of us must do a cpl and no singles. That way she has sex at the same time I am. We still want to be in the same room, but maybe a little out of sight, but then when we both hear the moans I think we both want to see what the other is doing. I will only get turned on seeing my wife with another man as long as I too am enjoying another woman. So both of us are even in physical pleasure at the same time. I don't think either of us can handle a three way yet until we have done this several times, but always with another cpl---we play together and never walk solo. He might want another woman, but knowing your feelings he might not say just to make you feel better---never know. I suggest a cpl to ease into it, but I shouldn't talk---we still waiting to have sex with other people. Good Luck!!! Jon and Kim
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