I gave up on 'fair' a long time ago. A stint in the military will do that for ya. The double standard unreg identifies exists in some situations, but so what. Either you accept it or reject it. If that is the way all the parties want to play fine, if not, then don'y play. We are as apt to do FMF as MFM, but we prefer MFMF. Obviously, finding one partner in sync with us is a lot easier than finding two, but that's the way it is. In our experience, there are many more couples playing with single males than with single females. The females we play with are generally bi. From a simple biological perspective, it is much easier for one woman to satisfy two guys than one guy to satisfy two women. Especially, if the females are straight. The basic rule we go by is that sex is supposed to be fun, and if anyone is not having fun for whatever reason then stop.
J
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