Our goal is to full swap, but for now we soft swing and are happy with it. We think soft first is always a great intro that maybe a full swap might happen later on in the friendship. Full swap right off the bat seems to aggressive to us. A little lite play at first just to see if there is sexual attraction. Why give everything up front? Give a little each time to make them want to come back for more. We are such teasers----lol. |