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Originally posted by Vjklander
and sometimes people just 'forget' to use them, or choose not to at the time. I think that accounts for a whole lot more instances than condoms actually breaking.
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Yes very true that sometimes people just choose not to use one @ the time, the first time the men tried this they both were prepared to go @ it without the condoms that was exactly 1 week b4 the night everything finally happened & like i said she "forgot" to pick up her next prescription of birth control then decided to wait until her next period to take them which would've been around now when she would've started taking them her & her fiance have not had an active sex life for so long, trust me i've heard all about this for about as long as i've known them, & when the first weekend failed they've been going @ it non-stop then the weekend everything happened between us all it was that week she started feeling syptoms without really knowing it so I guess I should tell you all her & I have talked again for quite awhile after my last post we calculated it & the child should definetly be her fiance's her & my fiance, Ken, only slept together 2x her fiance, joe, & I haven't slept together once & lately he sure has been hinting around that he would like to but he has that problem of "stage fright" as he calls it & I'm just not too comfortable with the idea of doing it with him now that his fiance is pregnant although she has told me that she told him not to push it too fast to try again with me. That got me really confused
since she told me b4 all this really happened that she wasn't into it & wouldn't do anything if I wasn't comfortable with it, none of them admit that they all talked about it & felt fine with the idea but no one talked to me about it & that's how I feel everything came about almost like I was left in the dark
I just really don't know anymore but she goes in for her ultrasound in 3 weeks so she'll know just how far along she is & as for our men they've cooled off for now although they both joke that they're gonna be keeping me busy now that she's pregnant. I've led a rough life growing up wishing that something exciting would happen but I didn't mean this
