 I had that scare once.
I was with an older couple. Well, older for me at the time. They were 38(her) and 44(him). It scared me to death when he came to my barracks and told me his wife was late and I might need to give a blood sample for the DNA test. I was lucky. Turned out that she was actually going through menopause early.
It is very important to find out who the father is as soon as possible. Like fun_pairTX said, it is important to know if there are any potential health problems that may arise in the future.
As far as the hurt feelings go, find a way to deal with it. I know that's a cold thing to say, but we all chose this lifestyle and all the dangers and complications it will bring. The four of you have to talk things out and decide how all of you are going to procede from here. It is no longer about the four of you, it is about a baby. THAT should be your main concern, not if someone's feelings are going to be hurt if its your fiance's child instead of her fiance.
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