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Originally posted by wrnakedru
So it is not difficult to imagine the reluctance a bisexual man might feel to discuss this with his mate. I would think this reluctance would turn to fear if they are pretty straight living folks. If the wife has had limited exposure to those who live their lives with a "free spirited" attitude, his fear would include the absolute belief she lacked the foundation to even begin to deal with his bisexuality. And that as a result, she would be incapable of understanding, much less accepting of it. (And worse, would never view him in the same way ever again) |
We think, if the communication gap is so wide, these folks shouldn't be married to each other. Since they are, they need to develop their communication. Fear has no place in a marriage, in our opinion, and the best way to face fear is head-on. He must tell his wife his "problem." ...or move to Paris.
Alura