I would have to say it goes with whatever makes you feel comfortable. I found myself feeling that way about a year ago. Hubby and I were out with a single female and she was "all over" my hubby at the bar that we were at. Others thought that he was her husband and I was just tagging along. I felt so bad that I ended up sitting at the bar by myself for a while. And a man came over to chat with me and was shocked when I said that I was with my husband. I was so embarrassed. I now have a big rule about public settings. I think it's about respect, at least for me. I took their actions as being disrespectful to me.
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