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wrnakedru · 07-06-2003, 03:58 PM

Anything unknown by or not agreed to is "cheating".

It is no excuse to set a scene with a bisexual male, who has activity outside his marriage because wife is unaware of this aspect of his sexuality. Or by its definition, is unable to meet this need of his.

So if a wife weren't a "swallower" it would then be acceptable for a man to stray with one who is? I think not.

As to the bisexuality issue, if that is unknown by his wife, he has already disrespected his marriage relationship by not communicating completely with his wife. If he is too fearful of her non-acceptance of it, then he needs to be non-acting on it.

They have other issues to deal with first. Those should be of the higher priority, otherwise a concern about "cheating" seems a bit hollow.

07-06-2003, 03:58 PM	#19 (permalink)
wrnakedru Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 1,989 Location: Bliss Status: Female	Agreed! Anything unknown by or not agreed to is "cheating". It is no excuse to set a scene with a bisexual male, who has activity outside his marriage because wife is unaware of this aspect of his sexuality. Or by its definition, is unable to meet this need of his. So if a wife weren't a "swallower" it would then be acceptable for a man to stray with one who is? I think not. As to the bisexuality issue, if that is unknown by his wife, he has already disrespected his marriage relationship by not communicating completely with his wife. If he is too fearful of her non-acceptance of it, then he needs to be non-acting on it. They have other issues to deal with first. Those should be of the higher priority, otherwise a concern about "cheating" seems a bit hollow.