Thread: Is it cheating?
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Old 07-05-2003, 05:43 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Originally posted by ATAK
I suppose the main reason I see it as cheating is that I cannot see (at all) what a man gets from being with another man.
Did I mis-read you?

Whether or not you can see the prospect of male bi-sexual relations, is really not the issue here. The issue here is "Is it okay for a man or a woman to have same sex relations without the knowledge of their significant other and be considered not cheating?"
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I certainly do not hold it against you if you prefer or are even open to such an encounter, but my preferences I'm sure sway my opinion on this subject.
Are you then saying that (in your opinion) it is okay for the gal to take off an have sex with another female without her husbands knowledge but your opinion is swayed because it isn't MM actions?

Not trying to be critical, ATAK, but in my opinion, cheating constitutes any sexual or emotional act in which the other party is unaware of. Sexual orientation has no bearing on my opinion.
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