The Swingers Board - View Single Post - Swinging vs Monogamy, are they not equal choices?

dentwebb · 07-03-2003, 12:19 AM

I just read your ad, and understand what you are saying in sprit for sure with no rules about what is acceptible from a swingers point of view. I have no idea as to whether you are the male/female of the two of you, nor does it matter. We as human beings like to do what we want to, always have and always will. Swinging isn't for everyone for sure and I am sure it is difficult for couples that one has reservations about it on one side or the other.
Either of you can choose to change the rules, that is free will. But there may be drawbacks to decisions, just part of it, sorry.
The ACLU will be more than happy to take up your cause for " Swingers Rights " just like the Gays.
I do beleive we all have the free will to do whatever we want to, that just doesn't transfer into no black lash.
I for sure would leave out the following thought!
God forbid this issue arises with your spouse and you have to suppress/hide it from him/her.
Even the ACLU won't defend your rights as a swinger on that topic.
I am so very glad I am single again, I don't have such complexities.

07-03-2003, 12:19 AM	#14 (permalink)
dentwebb Active Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 10 Location: Oklahoma Status: single male	Hi Dude I just read your ad, and understand what you are saying in sprit for sure with no rules about what is acceptible from a swingers point of view. I have no idea as to whether you are the male/female of the two of you, nor does it matter. We as human beings like to do what we want to, always have and always will. Swinging isn't for everyone for sure and I am sure it is difficult for couples that one has reservations about it on one side or the other. Either of you can choose to change the rules, that is free will. But there may be drawbacks to decisions, just part of it, sorry. The ACLU will be more than happy to take up your cause for " Swingers Rights " just like the Gays. I do beleive we all have the free will to do whatever we want to, that just doesn't transfer into no black lash. I for sure would leave out the following thought! God forbid this issue arises with your spouse and you have to suppress/hide it from him/her. Even the ACLU won't defend your rights as a swinger on that topic. I am so very glad I am single again, I don't have such complexities.