Another way to look at it is this: In a traditional monogamous relationship, does he love you just so he can get pussy on a regular basis? Has that question ever crossed your mind? If you share pleasures with others, and he still wants you, then you can be sure he loves you, he's not just playing along for the sex. Ah yes, the 'he still wants you' part. I think this provides the greatest trepidition for those considering sharing pleasures. How much do you really trust this guy. How sure are you of yourself?
Seymore: According to polls, monogamy is NOT the norm in society.
AnonDude: If you talk openly with your wife about all this, then the obvious solution is for you to swing and her not. We have friends in this situation. Their sex life is fine, but he likes to share pleasures with others and she does not. So he swings and she doesn't.
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