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Originally posted by AnonDude
I know and I am not saying this to be contentious - just a little introspective philosphy for discussion's sake but...
Couldn't the same words quoted above be said to the monogamous half of the relationship? Would we find it callous and cruel to say exactly what you said except reversed with a swinging lifestyle as the platform of defense?
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Yes, it can and that was what I meant by the mutually chosen lifestyle. Whether it be swinging or monogamy. Both parties need to be in agreement.
It sounds like you both need to talk about this more. This board could be of great help for both of you. I'd encourage your wife to read it too.
All the best.
DragonsLair
He is T. I am A.
