 But..
You didn't mention it, but I assume that you are married, and I assume that one of the original assumptions and practices was monogamy. Thus, swinging is the alternative lifestyle in your relationship. So, your wife has every right to say no, and you should respect that.
If you had gotten married, and were swingers before, and then after as well, and THEN she decided that she did not want to do it anymore, I would agree that monogamy was the alternative for you, and that you might have some thinking to do depending on how you felt about your partner.
Personally though, being with my wife comes above all esle and even though she is a tiger in bed and I love it, if she decided to never have sex again tomorrow, I would still stick with her.
I guess it comes down to how much you love your spouse.
I am not trying to judge you if you do not love her that much, only saying that you should recognize that your lack of feelings would be the end of the relationship, not your sexual differences.
Just my 2 cents
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