Have you talked to him about your concerns. If not then you can't really expect him to listen. It sounds to me like you are just going along without even voicing your real feelings to him.
You also might want to ask him where these new feelings of wanting to swing have come from since he has never mentioned them before.
Basically, there needs to be a LOT of talking going on here. Losing/hurting your friendship with this other couple is really the least of your worries.
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