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Originally posted by Unregistered
We went out one night and apparently everyone was in on this except me and when I finally figured out was going on it too late and time to go home. We didn't swing that night, although my husband did do some heavy petting with his buddies wife. |
While in agreement with all other comments, I see double trouble in terms of the close friendship. This other couple was in on this, too? I would wonder how close this "close" friendship really is if I had been duped in this manner. So now you are left with some trust issues with your husband as well as your friends....
Like others have said, lots of talk and communication needs to be taking place before any more steps are taken towards swinging. And I really like what Naughty A said - your FEELINGS vs. his MOTIVATIONS. Sometimes feelings and realities are miles apart. -EBF