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bear_n_bunny · 06-23-2003, 06:03 AM

I'm new to all of this but I wouldn't even have considered swinging without a whole lot of trust and a whole lot of talk first. We spent hours discussing our feelings on every situation we could conceive of encountering. And then we thought about it some more and talked about it some more before ever placing our first add.

Must admit that I'm also bothered by your husbands approach to this. If it were me, my sense of trust would be a be touchy.

Mainly, if you are not sure of yourself, your feelings, your reactions, your desires or those of your husbands, I wouldn't go near an encounter. As Biloxi couple said, talk.

-- Bunny

06-23-2003, 06:03 AM	#3 (permalink)
bear_n_bunny Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 465 Location: Houston, Texas Status: Happily Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:bear_n_bunny	I'm new to all of this but I wouldn't even have considered swinging without a whole lot of trust and a whole lot of talk first. We spent hours discussing our feelings on every situation we could conceive of encountering. And then we thought about it some more and talked about it some more before ever placing our first add. Must admit that I'm also bothered by your husbands approach to this. If it were me, my sense of trust would be a be touchy. Mainly, if you are not sure of yourself, your feelings, your reactions, your desires or those of your husbands, I wouldn't go near an encounter. As Biloxi couple said, talk. -- Bunny