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Recently my husband has expressed the desire to swap with a couple that are friends of ours. We went out one night and apparently everyone was in on this except me and when I finally figured out was going on it too late and time to go home. We didn't swing that night, although my husband did do some heavy petting with his buddies wife. After that my husband and I discussed it. He would really like to do this and I feel that he is basically telling me that I don't satisfy him and he wants to be with someone else. I feel that if I don't do this with him he will go find someone else somewhere and then I won't know what he's doing, who he's doing, or where he's doing it. We have been together for 9 years and he has never brought up any desire to do anything like this before. I agreed to it, but I feel very unsure and insecure about it. What happens if we do this and after one party or the other gets jealous, or one person wants to do it again and the other one doesn't. What if he likes her better then he likes me. What happens if doing this wrecks our friendship with these people that we have become quite close to over the last year or so? I have several doubts and I don't know wether or not this is a good idea, but I know that I couldn't handle it if my husband was out screwing around on me behind my back, either. What should I do?