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Old 06-20-2003, 12:36 PM   #5 (permalink)
OhioCouple
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Default Re: MR Bama & Mrs Bama need sugestions

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Originally posted by alabamafuntonig
... This gentle man is very sweet and his wife is to, I just want to have him fit in without making him feel uncomfortable.
I think you have pretty much answered your own question here. If you have already found that you like this couple, you've obviously spent some time talking with them and getting to know them. What have you talked with them about previously in order to come to that conclusion? Obviously they are as attracted to you as you are to them as they are coming to meet with you. Just relaxe and go with the flow of conversation, it will naturally lead you to comfortable topics. My hubby is 58 years old and can talk about darn near every subject in the world with anyone. (Well, he might not know who Eminem is though.) Don't let the age gap be a difference in how you respond or treat him.

Oh, I guess I do have one suggestion. When they ring the doorbell, don't open up the door with a drop jawed look and say something like "Good lord all mighty, are you sure you are only 45?" "Or how did an old man like you snare this fox?" That may not set a good tone for the rest of the evening.
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