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The lack of sensitivity to single males hurts me.
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I am truly sorry you feel hurt by that issue. I assure you that the way many people treat 225# women hurts me and my husband would like to share with you about what it's like to be a 5'4" tall man.
I'd like to tell you about how hurt I felt when I wasn't encouraged to go to college when I was in High School (I was told I didn't have what it takes by the HS counselor, she was obviously an idiot) -- only to put it off a few years and then get into a fine University with 150% financial aid and have held Dean's List honors every semester.
I'm sure there are plenty of folks on this board and elsewhere that will be more than happy to tell you about hurt. Ask a veteran about heartache. Ask that geeky guy with the pocket protector about hurt. Ask anyone that belongs to a minority group of any kind.
HELL -- ASK ANYONE! everyone suffers some pain and heartache in life. We then move on or adapt to it.
Either way -- I don't believe that anyone says
"I want to hurt single mens feelings so I don't invite them to play with us." So, the pain of the result is not the cause of the result. Let's not get into circular logic here or we will never come to understand why some couples don't invite single men.... That is why we're reading this thread, right?
Bob, you are very good at introducing logical fallacy into a debate -- but I see through it. Let's talk about the "why" -- you can do that can't you? If not then concede that you don't know why -- but you know you don't like it.
