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This is not about sex this is about respect. I do not know why people say swinging is not all about sex to single males like we don't know that and then in the next breath act like it is. The fact is females get better treatment pertaining to sex or not.
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Well, what would we have here in the lifestyle if we took out the sex equation -- well, we'd just meet people.
I'd propose that swinging IS about sex. It's very much about sex. And very little about anything else.
So, why do couples not invite single men to their party -- SEX! they want women and single women are just that and couples bring a woman.
Maybe
my earlier post with all of the rationalizations was missing that one all important point. Maybe it's not about personality, or build, or any other qualifier as much as it is about SEX! Maybe it's about
girls get laid easier than guys everywhere except in the gay bar. And that's just not fair to the guys -- we should all be nicer and let them sleep with us more often {sarcasm}
That'd make the whole debate easier wouldn't it? I still have to wonder though -- if all these women are getting laid, but none of the guys are -- there must be one really tired and worn out guy out there
Gentlemen, it does seem that from the replies to this and other posts that many women on these boards (myself included) DO invite single guys -- that implies then, if you're not getting invited, it's not because you're single...