OK, lets say someone named Lonelygal wrote this:
I have been in a swinging lifestyle for 5 years. My husband left me for the secratary at work and I would like to continue my interest in the lifestyle but don't quite know how.
Now lets say the poster's name were Lonelyguy.
I have been in a swinging lifestyle for 5 years. My wife left me because she found someone better. I want to continue swinging but it seems that couples have no interest in me.
ALthough both of these posts are not what the board is about the lonely gal would get much more attention than the lonely guy.
She would be smothered by the females that want to protect her, of course, without bias hehe. She would be flooded by guys that see a vulnerable lady out there, and if anyone dared to confront her they would be lamblasted. Couples would trip over each other to give her advice.
The guy on the other hand would be advised to watch out for self pity. The strong suggestion would be that he should have a female if he wants to swing. He would be put under the microsopic swinging inspectors that would suggest he probably did something wrong to begin with.
As I suggested this board is not about meeting people but discussing swinging. Us males that have been swinging for years and are still interested are just as capable of discussing it as the females that may be in the same boat or, just wondering.
It seems as if any single guy that expresses his feelings is catagorized immidiately as a horny failure, while a thwarted female is some kind of swinging icon.
If this were a meeting board I could have more tolerance.
Ahh....
John |