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Originally posted by BettyAnnMBSC
This following sentiment is not directed toward anyone in particular (unless the shoe fits); I'm going to find out shortly whether this thread is flame bait or an honest discussion seeking real answers. I am a woman, I am a swinger, I am educated and articulate, and I know none of you here. I have offered to share my opinions and observations. You may now each elect to learn from (or listen but select to ignore) what I am offering or you can continue to argue that "all men are great for swingers, couples shouldn't discriminate against single men" when we all know that couples are free to chose anyone or nobody at whim.
We also know that it is a fact that couples do not invite as many single men into the lifestyle. That fact should not be subject of this debate -- subject of this debate is "why".
Either way, I can follow this thread as flame bait/chain yanking or I can offer my insight. I like a good debate as much as anyone -- even a flame war! Others may offer insight too. The ball is in y'alls court...  |
Well, in that case the debate is already over, because I have already answered the question of "why" couples don't invite many single men into the lifestyle, in an earlier post on this thread...
Although, to be precise, the question should actually be, "why don't most swing couples invite single men to join with them in intimate fun?" But again, the question has already been answered; it's just that some people don't want to accept the truth of the matter.