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Originally posted by BettyAnnMBSC
Maybe as an idea for undertanding "the shoe on the other foot" might I suggest this...
If you want to truly understand why many couples and women don't explore single men....
create a couple or female screen name and profile with Yahoo. Then take that screen into a chat room for "romance in x-town" Don't say anything except "HI" to the room and then wait.
See what the single men are actually doing to damage the road for everyone. You'll be appaled!
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Try this one on for size. Many years ago, in the pre-Internet days, there was a BBS here in Houston called "Matchmaker" (It still exists today, as a series of web sites for locations all over the world). A buddy of mine and I were discussing it one day, and he told me some of his experiences when he did just what Betty Ann suggested, created a "female" account for himself. I didn't believe some of the stuff he told me that he'd seen and experienced, so I decided to try it myself. Dialed in, created an account as a female, and the first message, THE VERY FIRST MESSAGE I got read "HAVE YOU EVER BEEN FUCKED IN THE ASS WITH A BIG BLACK DICK?". No "Hi, how are you?", nothing. Just that. Needless to say, after I tore this moron 14 new BIG BLACK ASSHOLES, I did not hear from him again. However, that was by no means the only time I got messages of that sort. And I've lost count of the women who have related similar stories to me. Of course, you don't have to be into swinging to put up with this sort of thing, as we all know. And no, not all single guys pull stunts like this; I know I didn't, and during the years I was single, finding willing bed partners was NEVER a problem, nor did I ever have to go near a swingers club or web site to find plenty of ladies more than willing to test the bedsprings to destruction with me. Which again makes me wonder why so many single guys come around swing sites to start with. It's not like this is a target-rich environment where single men are concerned (most couples are NOT interested), and there are plenty of sites (adultfriendfinder, sexyads, yahoo, etc, etc) where a single guy would have a lot more luck in the nooky department.