After reading the biting remarks daily lately about single men, my position on this board seems almost meaningless. I consider myself an advocate for good single men. Many couples have befriended me as well as single single females.
Rarely is a compliment offered. Yet when you read the experiences of couples with single men some of the hottest stories pop up. I think it is a matter of fact that jerk single guys tend to be jerk single guys, but why dwell on them. We are here and its like we have leprosy. It is so much fun for people to relish in insulting those they consider inferior due to circumstances....it nauseates me.
If I were a good single guy that had never been exposed to the lifestyle I would think it is for jerks only reading this board, maybe that is why so many seem to be coming on board lately. No one offers advice. They just feel it is there duty to mankind to let everyone know they wouldnt ever ever ever do a single guy because they are all a bunch of lying, scrubs....IM NOT.
Lets see some compassion for the guys that are nice. (AS IF HUH?) I don't think anyone of us hasn't been single at some point. Once that ring goes on the finger it does not make an asshole suddenly a prized bull. It would seem that once the ring comes off a perfectly good man should just put his tail between his legs and listen to the holier than thou, righteous preaching from those people that are in a good relationship.
I think the rudeness and lack of sensitivity is appalling. Especialy when I hear it from friends. I wonder if people can really put themselves in other people's shoes. Certain people just get off on trying to reduce any semblence of self confidence anyone that doesn't fall into their elite category may happen to have. Not me though.. I would rather be single than be with any one of the ranters I have heard on this board that are so shallow minded and hurtful anyhow....
John
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