As I have said, tomorrow you could be single, if you still want to swing and happen to be male you will be subjected to narrow minded sharp tongued remarks that will not take you into consideration.
Take me for instance. I daily read posts by certain people that jump at every post that mentions single men as an excuse to lump them together and insult them openly without consideration as to why they are single or what they really do in the lifestyle.
I don't happen to swing, however I have (with partners for the most part), for over 20 years. Imagine the sting when people you feel close to just stick barbs into you by lumping you into a category without even considering your feelings.
It just plain hurts.
John |