[OhioCouple]

This is a pretty touch subject for me.

While I think single men can be and are swingers, I also think that there is a vast majority that think it is a cheap and easy way to get laid. Having attended a club on a night that allows single males and belonging to two different pay sites, my overall observation is that I am not someone's visual or written masturbation tool.

If you don't want to spend the cash to do so, go to Adult Friend Finder or any other pay site that offers a free or trial period and you'll get a good idea of why most couples do not prefer to receive mail from single males. Be sure not to block the single males. I guarantee you that you will get a ton of responses in addition to a lot of pictures that you just would prefer not to see. This alone is enough to taint the image of the single male. Top that off with a club on a night where singles are allowed and it just becomes a done deal in the way of thinking.

There are many great singles on this board....unfortunately there are a few that have once again tarnished the image of the single male. I am sorry for them, but facts are just facts. I've never been duped by a single female....but then they are not usually flocking in droves looking to seek a swinging relationship. I have been duped numerous times by single men.