I've said this before in other threads, but one of the things that have helped out communication the most is an agreement we made soon after we met: That we would never get angry because a particular question was asked and that we'd do our best to answer. "What's on your mind?" can't be answered by saying, "Oh, nothing..."
Be sure you can separate "Making Love" and "Playing." They are totally different things even if your bodies are making the same movements. We find we laugh a lot when we play with others; our lovemaking is much deeper, more serious and meaningful.
Take your time; there is no hurry.
Mr. Alura
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