The Swingers Board - View Single Post - How can I deal with these feelings of insecurity?

Michcouple · 06-14-2003, 01:04 PM

Your totally normal to have the feeling that you have. You must always keep in mind that you can fuck anyone....but you can only make love to someone you truly love. Of course you can still fuck the one you love too.

The key point is to talk to your partner. For example....Let's say that you feel he really enjoyed how another women preformed oral sex on him. You can feel sorry for yourself or you can ask him why it was so good. That way you can turn the negative into a postive.

You need to also ask yourself this question. Would you want to swing with another couple where you didn't find your "swing partner" attractive, sexy, or good in the bed? I am sure the answer would be No.

Good luck and keep us posted

06-14-2003, 01:04 PM	#10 (permalink)
Michcouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 845 Location: Michigan Status: couple	Your normal Your totally normal to have the feeling that you have. You must always keep in mind that you can fuck anyone....but you can only make love to someone you truly love. Of course you can still fuck the one you love too. The key point is to talk to your partner. For example....Let's say that you feel he really enjoyed how another women preformed oral sex on him. You can feel sorry for yourself or you can ask him why it was so good. That way you can turn the negative into a postive. You need to also ask yourself this question. Would you want to swing with another couple where you didn't find your "swing partner" attractive, sexy, or good in the bed? I am sure the answer would be No. Good luck and keep us posted