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BodyScape02 · 06-12-2003, 10:40 PM

It seems I have started a new club without intending to! The more the better... I must say one thing you all kind of missed my point.

It is not so much the size that is an issue for me, as we have been with couples were the men were in the under seven club and had a grand time.

It is the issue of misrepresentation.

A man who is of average length but a great kisser/ lover is a pleasure to be with. For me it was more an issue of expecting the diversion of playing with a certain toy and being sent photos that represented this…then being lied to in more than one way. One was a horrible kisser to boot and was just wailing away when he got his chance using the hand on one of my breasts to put his whole body weight on. I admit to being spoiled (by my lover) and to shamelessly preferring to remain so.

Now that I think about it the two distasteful experiences were with single men. Perhaps that has something to do with it? But then again that is another thread to be posted (lol). Either way I think we have all gotten off the track of the original thread.

The gentleman was concerned he did something wrong by being larger than the couples husband, and wanted to know if size was an issue for some men (or women) when it came to choosing who to swing with. I think we all have to realize that the only relationship that really means anything is the one with our partners. The rest is just “play” transient and temporary. Her husband may well have felt threatened or you may have been too big for the wife to comfortably handle (anal or otherwise). It is their issue. Relax and have fun.

All of this is like a party with lots of toys to choose from and lots of people to dance with and all of us are looking for whatever it is we are hungry for at the moment. We all have preferences and those preferences change constantly. I don’t let it get my panties in a twist if someone doesn’t want to play with me. I may be too big, too small, too brunette or too tall. Then again…I may be just right! And when its right…its fun! I don’t make a big deal out of being rejected because I don’t fit others current preferences…

06-12-2003, 10:40 PM	#47 (permalink)
BodyScape02 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 556 Location: off the board	well now It seems I have started a new club without intending to! The more the better... I must say one thing you all kind of missed my point. It is not so much the size that is an issue for me, as we have been with couples were the men were in the under seven club and had a grand time. It is the issue of misrepresentation. A man who is of average length but a great kisser/ lover is a pleasure to be with. For me it was more an issue of expecting the diversion of playing with a certain toy and being sent photos that represented this…then being lied to in more than one way. One was a horrible kisser to boot and was just wailing away when he got his chance using the hand on one of my breasts to put his whole body weight on. I admit to being spoiled (by my lover) and to shamelessly preferring to remain so. Now that I think about it the two distasteful experiences were with single men. Perhaps that has something to do with it? But then again that is another thread to be posted (lol). Either way I think we have all gotten off the track of the original thread. The gentleman was concerned he did something wrong by being larger than the couples husband, and wanted to know if size was an issue for some men (or women) when it came to choosing who to swing with. I think we all have to realize that the only relationship that really means anything is the one with our partners. The rest is just “play” transient and temporary. Her husband may well have felt threatened or you may have been too big for the wife to comfortably handle (anal or otherwise). It is their issue. Relax and have fun. All of this is like a party with lots of toys to choose from and lots of people to dance with and all of us are looking for whatever it is we are hungry for at the moment. We all have preferences and those preferences change constantly. I don’t let it get my panties in a twist if someone doesn’t want to play with me. I may be too big, too small, too brunette or too tall. Then again…I may be just right! And when its right…its fun! I don’t make a big deal out of being rejected because I don’t fit others current preferences…