She Says: Size to me isn't important. I keep telling my other half that I have no problem with his size. We have talked about it and as he stated in his post above, I really feel that if the man was too long it would be very painful for me. I don't have a lot of depthness in that area and if the man was longer than the average it would hurt too much. My man and I have tried different positions and we have learned that he can not go the full length as it hits up against spots and hurts. As for thicker around I am not sure what that would feel like for me as my man fills me and makes me feel wonderful.
Why men are so concerned about size has always disturbed me. Size isn't all that important. Even if the woman you are with is, what I've seen labeled, as large.. what you do with it and how you use it makes the size unimportant.
I was married for 18 years to a man who is smaller than average. Not only short but very slender. I spent all those years with a man who was not average, but didn't know what to do with it either. His idea of sex was to wham, bam, thank you mam, roll over and go to sleep leaving me with an emptiness and sometimes crying. For years I thought I was frigid. Needless to say, sex for me, was not fun or enjoyable.
After my exhusband and I separated I met my other half. I had my first orgasm when we had intercourse for the first time. He is average and he is enough for me. He knows what he is doing and has great stamina. I always have multiple orgasms when we make love. Great experience for me.
For me, ability is what is important. I would hope that my other half would believe me when I say I don't wish him to be bigger. I love you buddy.
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