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Old 06-12-2003, 05:19 PM   #41 (permalink)
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Well, based on the vituperative responses to my earlier post, made by individuals as sensitive to their "size" as they claim I am, I rest my case.

And just so you ladies know, what I posted was based on reality; the world as it is, not what you would like everyone else to think it is. I was straight up about my size, and my comments about women with large vaginas was based on hard (no pun intended) experience, not any "insecurities" on my part. As I said before, most of my 40-odd partners (from the first one, when I was fifteen, to date) I've had in my life had no complaints at all. Quite the contrary in fact. It was only a small number who did, and all of them had, big, loose pussies on them. And to me, it was not that I was "too small", it was that they were too big. Deal with it.

Example; when I was fifteen, I got laid for the first time. When I entered the girl, I recall thinking, in my naivete, that she must have been fucked a lot, because she was so loose. I remember when we were done, as she left the room, there was a little trail of blood drops on the floor. She said she had just started her period, and again, in my naivete, I believed her. This was an unplanned casual encounter, and the girl and I were never intimate again. Fast forward a few years to a local bar, where I ran into this same girl again. We had a nice conversation that evening, where I discovered that that had been her first time as well (talk about amateur night in Dixie..., hence the blood. She also made it clear that her preference was for guys with big cocks, such as her boyfriend who was playing pool across the room, since she was so big down there herself, a fact that I could definitely attest to. Neither of us took it anything being wrong with me, or her, for that matter. It was just a fact of her anatomy, and that was that.

And I've never read Penthouse, so I really don't know what was being referred to, and really don't care.

Oh, and the incident about the blood on the condom was quite true. If you had ever been with a woman who has gone without sex for an extended period of time (this excludes women who during their dry spell used a dildo regularly), or penetrated a woman deeper than she had been, either ever or for a long period of time, you would know this to be true.

And as for the "what if the other guy has a bigger one than you, will you let him be with your wife again" question, that is entirely up to her. If we click with the couple, and he does right by her, it's no skin off my teeth. I've had it happen, in fact. Watched my swing partner get plowed by a guy who had a much bigger cock than I did. Except when the party was over, *I* was the one she gladly came home with... And another thing is (and here is another unpleasant truth I'm sure some of you won't like..., I've lost count of the women who have told me over the years that most guys packing that Dick of Death are lousy lays. Most seem to think all they have to do is just show up, and the women will melt into little puddles of orgiastic ecstasy at the sight of their magnificent member.

Unfortunately, when it comes time to get down to the rat killin', as it were, most of them just ram it home with no finesse, no technique, no class. And boys, I'm just going by what I've been told by one hell of a lot of women over the years, both in and out of swinging. (And watched, for that matter, such as the aforementioned guy who plowed my swing partner. He just climbed up between her legs, shoved it in, and whamwhamwham. Needless to say, I heard later about how underwhelmed and unimpressed she had been with his performance, and she was a woman with a pretty good sized vagina on her to boot.) To be sure, these ladies all seemed to have the smaller, tighter fixtures, and hence were faced with the same sort of mismatch I referred to earlier, except in reverse.

The moral to the story is that people do indeed come in all shapes and sizes, and when it comes to genitalia, these same variations apply just as much to women as it does to men, whether some on the distaff side want to admit it or not.

I'll say no more about this, as my point has been made, and those of you with your knickers in a knot over it can go back to squealing in outrage to your heart's content...
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