Bodyscape02 wrote
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I find the term "let him" a bit interesting. WE as a couple are a colaboration. We decide as a couple and discuss everything. That comment sounds as if you decide for her( which I hope is not the case).
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I don't know about your relationship but I know in ours we each decide who we swing with. If just one of us is not interested in one or both members of the couple we respectfully tell them we are not interested.
Example, If She has a great personallity but he seems like a jerk Mrs wicpl will say no way. I respect her choice, it's part of what makes us great together. (You can switch roles in this example if you wish.)
Now, I bet you are going to ask me if I would let my wife swing with another guy who was larger than me. H E doulble hockey sticks I would. Bring him on I say!
