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DragonsLair · 06-12-2003, 10:27 AM

I'm sorry your first experience back in the lifestyle went so poorly.

I would tell him exactly what you told us. Be very straight forward and honest. Don't sugar coat it. He needs to understand that by breaking the rules with you, he lost any chance of being with you again. And he needs to realize if he does this with other couples, he won't be in this lifestyle for very long.

There is no excuse for breaking the rules after he agreed to them. Trust is important.

Good luck and please let us know how it goes.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

06-12-2003, 10:27 AM	#2 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	I'm sorry your first experience back in the lifestyle went so poorly. I would tell him exactly what you told us. Be very straight forward and honest. Don't sugar coat it. He needs to understand that by breaking the rules with you, he lost any chance of being with you again. And he needs to realize if he does this with other couples, he won't be in this lifestyle for very long. There is no excuse for breaking the rules after he agreed to them. Trust is important. Good luck and please let us know how it goes. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.