Thank u all for the input. After I wrote my last post, I showed my other half what I had written and it stirred some interesting conversation. I think my own insecurities are definately a big factor in the way I am looking at his side. He said honestly that he will be totally happy with just a 3some, so I am gonna rest the issue with him and work on myself for a bit after the little one gets here. I was never this insecure before getting pregnant, so it may just be the hormones and the fact that I gained a bit more weight with this one than my last. And in our culture wieght gain is almost always a issue for us women. I have just recently begun to view my sexuallity as a good thing and am looking forward to broadening my horizions in that area. Just the old way of thinking tends to creap up every now and then. That is why I think I was equating swinging with cheating. But u are right in saying one has nothing to do with the other. Again thank u all. This really opened up a great discussion between us.
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