Well said Mrs. O. ---And might I add--arcpl-- that you said the time for our last little one to be born is almost here, so the possibility of us swinging is starting to become more of a reality than just this fantasy that we discuss, and u also said The whole idea of a threesome was his idea. This have got me thinking. What level of eagerness on both side of the equation is this being discuss in? Is this being discuss while you folks are actually going at it--or is this being discuss at common times such as when you are watching tv or at the dinner table.
Because while you are making out and talking dirty to each other you may both be on relatively the same level with this, so it sounds just as exciting to both of you. How ever during times that it is just part of casual conversations, it may not be. It may be a case of him talking "Oh honey, Gosh--I can't wait to do this for the first time! Oh baby, it is going to be fun!" And you are Responding "Oh yes dear. Yes it will dear. Sure, whatever you say dear." I am imagining that since you are writing this---he is not aware of your true feelings on the subject. Is this the case? Or am I off here?
Because if this is the case---then you would have to once again deal with who is actually being honest in reguards to this subject???
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