Just out of curiosity---what are his thoughts of seeing you with another man??? I have often seen the words that jealousy has no place in the lifestyle--and due to the very nature of the lifestyle--it is a logical sentiment to make. You seem to believe that you will have a tad of jealousy if you see him with another woman--which automatically should mean out of the considerations for your feelings--which he should put above his--a female should never be involved.
But--What are his feelings of you having another man. After all---since you have a desire to have a threesum--it is going to have to involve another person--and there is a 50/50 chance that person will have to be a male or a female. Since we have already establish because of your feelings of another female--that the other person can not be a female---that raised the chances of the other person being a male to be 100%. What would be his feelings towards this???
If he truly believes that he would be ok with another male joining you---and it IS under the circumstances that it is all 3 of you---then by all means go for it. If however he too expresses the concern you have on the added female agenda, then the very simple thing to do is not to swing at all, because he too will be faced with a jealousy issue. And if you would be jealous of another female--and he in turn would be jealous of another male---who else can you possibly swing with??? A transgender?????
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