I don't think its fair to tell the op that he is worried too much about labelling. He is reacting on his wife's interpretation of the situation. Personally it seems as though she has issues with the submissive aspect of eating out a freshly cummed pussy.
I agree with slevin here in that it is important to read between the lines:
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Originally Posted by slevin  I think in this case it is important to read between the lines of what she is trying to say. Is she bringing this up because she likes when her husband is dominant, or in control, and she feels like perhaps this isn't in line with that? Is she worried that it might be humiliating to him? Perhaps she finds it humiliating for him? Or she worries that he doesn't truly enjoy it |
In my opinion I would have a frank conversation with her about her feelings about gay sex. Not that you are even remotely even bisexual! I'm not saying that. It's just that you're interests in eating her out directly after or fucking her after she is worn out could be construed as acts of homosexual behavior. Plenty of people worry that bisexuality coincides with sub behavior. Your interest in this seems totally heteroflexible but I can see where she might have some issues with it.
Like fun4 says, be prepared for honesty, but that's the best way to figure out where to go from here.