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ViSexual · 06-27-2010, 05:47 AM

OK, my wife and I had a 'soft swap' rule when we first began and it was a lot of fun.

In fact, it was going to 'full swap' that I believe was her downfall in the lifestyle..., and I might add, it was her doing, not mine.

Soft swap is foreplay, full swap is the completion. And, just like petting in high school then going home to masturbate, soft swap with friends, then going home to enjoy completion with each other, isn't so bad at all.

It's like watching an erotic movie together. You both fantasize about being with one of the charactors but the reason you're watching is to get your blood pressure up for each other!

There's nothing wrong with full swapping in the lifestyle, but, there's certainly nothing at all wrong with keeping it soft either! It's just a preference.

06-27-2010, 05:47 AM	#11 (permalink)
ViSexual Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 521 Location: Florida Status: M. Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Visexual	Re: Understanding soft swap OK, my wife and I had a 'soft swap' rule when we first began and it was a lot of fun. In fact, it was going to 'full swap' that I believe was her downfall in the lifestyle..., and I might add, it was her doing, not mine. Soft swap is foreplay, full swap is the completion. And, just like petting in high school then going home to masturbate, soft swap with friends, then going home to enjoy completion with each other, isn't so bad at all. It's like watching an erotic movie together. You both fantasize about being with one of the charactors but the reason you're watching is to get your blood pressure up for each other! There's nothing wrong with full swapping in the lifestyle, but, there's certainly nothing at all wrong with keeping it soft either! It's just a preference.