i am only 4 years my wifes senior but sometimes tthe age factor plays into things...im not sure if it a gripe at the time of an argument or just a real concern.....as far as the larger gap...15 years etc..well i find a lot of cpls we know down here in alabama are that way swingers or not...i think it may be a cultural thing...im not sure roxie why dont you do a poll and let us all find out the average gap between cpls........( although i love my wife when im 80 and if she passes on before me im going to marry the first 21 year old that says yes lol
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