My husband and I have a 2 year age difference, but my first (I sound like Liz Taylor here) was 12 years older than me which makes a huge difference when you're 19/ 20 years old, although I don't think it would matter much now. We (obviously) didn't last, and I think it was not so much age as maturity. At 20 I was not ready to deal with the stresses of real life and his actual, not necessarily sexual, life experiences were way more in focus than mine.
In answer to Roxy's question, so far we still have only played in threes and so I cannot say whether there is a disparity of ages in the couples who swing. Hopefully we find out soon.
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