We have a fifteen year age difference. The only one who thought it basically "wrong" was Mrs. Alura's mother, who first said I was "old enough to be Mrs. Alura's father." I pointed out to her that I had doubts she would have slept with a fourteen year old boy when she was 27, which is what would have been required for me to be Mrs. Alura's father. After we'd been together about sixteen years she seemed to accept that we were happy and it might last.
We don't know if we've had any problems "connecting" with other couples because of the age difference. Oujr playmates have generally been around our ages, mostly near Mrs. Alura's. One long-term couple we played were nearer my age. We haven't actively sought partners, just getting to know people and letting the "play" evolve or not evolve.
Mr. Alura
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