Well we are an anomaly. I have posted about this before...lol.
L is 45 and loves older women, I'm talking sixtyish here. I'm 48 and I adore younger men (30's and 40's). We do have trouble agreeing on couples to swing with for that reason. I'll probably get flamed here but I find that older men, in general, have more problems with their erections and are more resistant to using condoms, probably because it creates more problems with their erections. On the other hand, when I'm 60 I hope some handsome young stud like L wants to swing with me