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Originally Posted by Newpants  Then maybe you may be able to offer some insider information then from a vanilla's point of view. How did your swinger friends get you to come over to the dark side? |
It happened a little over 20 years ago. We and the other couple had met at a nudist resort several years before and had become very good friends.
It was very common for us to get together with them at either our house or their house. And when we got together, we usually got nude. And when we got together it was not unusual for my wife to talk mainly to him and for me to talk mainly to his wife.
On this one particular night, we were drinking a little, but none of us were drunk. We were just feeling relaxed. My wife and our male friend were sitting on the floor in our living room, and they started rubbing each other.
At the same time, the other wife and I were on the floor across the room, and I was gently massaging her. I really wasn't paying much attention to my wife and our male friend until I started hearing some moaning and other fun-type sounds coming from across the room.
I looked over and saw that my wife and friend had advanced past the massaging state and he was having intercourse with her, and she was really into it and enjoying it.
I pointed them out to my friend's wife whom I was still massaging and she seemed happy with the situation, so I started playing with her breasts and her pussy. After a while, I started rubbing my penis over her pussy and started inserting it inside. At this point I asked her if she was on the pill since I knew her husband had had a vasectomy and I had not. She said that her tubes had been tied. This was in the 80s and before HIV.
Since the floor was feeling hard, she and I went into the bedroom and continued our play. After we had finished, we went back into the living room where my wife and her playmate were still playing. When they saw the bed was free, they went into the bedroom to continue their play.
My playmate and I sat on the sofa and listened to our spouses continue to play in the bedroom. At that point, my playmate told me that her husband had wanted to have sex with my wife for years. I was glad to hear that since I had wanted to have sex with his wife, my playmate for the evening, for years too.
When we woke up the next morning, both of us asked the other if what we thought had happened had really happened. That evening was all we could talk about for the next few weeks.
What was really amazing about the evening is that my wife and I had never discussed swinging before, but we both really loved it when it happened. And neither of us had any jealousy.
Since my wife did not work at the time, and our friend worked at night and was home during the day, the two of them got together several times over the next few weeks to play. Yes, his wife, who worked during the day, was fine with the idea too, and the thought of my wife having sex with my best friend really turned me on too.
For some reason, even though we liked each other, his wife and I got together to play only a couple more times, and at those times our spouses were with us and playing too.
Our friends divorced a number of years ago, but we are still friendly with both of them. He is my best friend and we have continued to have him over to play. It started with he and my wife playing and has evolved to a mfm threesome.
Anyway, I hope this shows that with the right friends, swinging can bring people closer together.