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Old 02-08-2010, 03:54 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Cool Re: mutual satisfaction

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Originally Posted by bobcat2712 View Post
My wife and I have had several "encounters" with people we have met. Unfortunately, my wife's satisfaction hasn't equaled mine. We have talked about it after each and have tried to make adjustments, but she gets frustrated and I get frustrated because I want her to have as good a time as what I have.

Some of the issues

There's the obvious:
- the gentlemen (for whatever reason) can't get hard ---- our solution - for me to make sure I include her in with myself & partner

Less obvious:
- my wife has a hard time reaching orgasm (we've tried multiple products from various stores with little success)....and the partners I've been with have a much easier time and have been able to have multiple O's.

I want my wife to have a GOOD time and enjoy herself......this lifestyle isn't just for me but for both of us.

Any ideas or feedback would be appreciated.

sincerely
Bobcat
Good luck...I might take Digginit's advice and find a regular couple/playmate that you can play with, one that will be willing to make sure your wife enjoys herself to the fullest and is not just in it form himself. Is your wife Bi???Maybe you can find a woman to please her as well???
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