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interested-05 · 02-02-2010, 11:48 AM

The question has a wide variety of variables involved. Am I capable of truly loving more than on person at a time, yes. am i able to deal with the all the bs, that more than one at a time can create?
Do I have enough time to meet the needs of more than one? Will I offend the one while meeting the needs of the other. What happens when I am caught in the middle of an unresolvable issue between the others?
I have a few friends I really care for. Does this mean I love them? Yes in some ways I do, but there is only so much of me to go around. Which is why my wife is the center of my Love, and my friends are a peripheral love which I enjoy being with. Maybe doing everything including sex, but when it comes time to fall asleep and wake up with everyday, I have one and that is fulfillment enough.

02-02-2010, 11:48 AM	#42 (permalink)
interested-05 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 218 Location: CT Status: couple	Re: Swingers, Could you be open to poly? The question has a wide variety of variables involved. Am I capable of truly loving more than on person at a time, yes. am i able to deal with the all the bs, that more than one at a time can create? Do I have enough time to meet the needs of more than one? Will I offend the one while meeting the needs of the other. What happens when I am caught in the middle of an unresolvable issue between the others? I have a few friends I really care for. Does this mean I love them? Yes in some ways I do, but there is only so much of me to go around. Which is why my wife is the center of my Love, and my friends are a peripheral love which I enjoy being with. Maybe doing everything including sex, but when it comes time to fall asleep and wake up with everyday, I have one and that is fulfillment enough.