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bobcat2712 · 02-01-2010, 10:13 PM

My wife and I have had several "encounters" with people we have met. Unfortunately, my wife's satisfaction hasn't equaled mine. We have talked about it after each and have tried to make adjustments, but she gets frustrated and I get frustrated because I want her to have as good a time as what I have.

Some of the issues

There's the obvious:
- the gentlemen (for whatever reason) can't get hard ---- our solution - for me to make sure I include her in with myself & partner

Less obvious:
- my wife has a hard time reaching orgasm (we've tried multiple products from various stores with little success)....and the partners I've been with have a much easier time and have been able to have multiple O's.

I want my wife to have a GOOD time and enjoy herself......this lifestyle isn't just for me but for both of us.

Any ideas or feedback would be appreciated.

sincerely
Bobcat

02-01-2010, 10:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
bobcat2712 Registered Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 6 Location: Washington Status: Married	mutual satisfaction My wife and I have had several "encounters" with people we have met. Unfortunately, my wife's satisfaction hasn't equaled mine. We have talked about it after each and have tried to make adjustments, but she gets frustrated and I get frustrated because I want her to have as good a time as what I have. Some of the issues There's the obvious: - the gentlemen (for whatever reason) can't get hard ---- our solution - for me to make sure I include her in with myself & partner Less obvious: - my wife has a hard time reaching orgasm (we've tried multiple products from various stores with little success)....and the partners I've been with have a much easier time and have been able to have multiple O's. I want my wife to have a GOOD time and enjoy herself......this lifestyle isn't just for me but for both of us. Any ideas or feedback would be appreciated. sincerely Bobcat
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