 Re: Swingers, Could you be open to poly?
Polyamory is like anything else. What it means to an individual or couple will necessarily be different from another. Polyamory is about love and relationships. It does not define those relationships.
I am in a Poly relationship under that definition. There are two different women that I love and care about other than my wife. One predates my meeting my wife, the other I met through her. Is my relationship with them sexual? No, it is not. That is life, and I will not abandon my caring about them just because I’m not sleeping with them.
In traditional relationships as defined by “normal” society, I would have to abandon and ignore my love for them. So poly is what it is for you.
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