[couplers]

Hi, this is Petra. I see swinging as giving your partner the gift of being able to have sex with others, nothing demanded in return. Polymory is giving your partner the gift of being able to love someone else with nothing demanded in return. What makes my relationships work is both my partners' true love for me demonstrated by their willingness to accept the fact that I love both of them, and that I can express it. Especially David who became my husband, took me as I was, a woman still caring deeply and in love with a boyfriend. Many here, especially guys, have said that they enjoy seeing their partners deriving pleasure from sex with someone else and at that moment feel great love for her or him. My husband goes one step better because he shares and encourages the joy I get from my emotional attachment to Red. Your spouse letting you have sex with someone else is nothing compared to mine letting me kiss my bf on the cheek and tell him, "I love you."